Woohoo!!! Last night i saw Andy Lau at Lido, not bad not bad, he was shorter than i imagined and yeah his nose is quite big lol. No offense man. However if it was Jessica Alba, i think i would have fainted haha. Come on, Asian film industry just cant compare to those in America, Andy Lau vs Brad Pitt, Jackie Chan vs Tom cruise. Cfm the angmos would win lar.
Anyway its 115, better hurry up blog this b4 i go to sleep, if not i dont think i ll ever remember. I guess rule number one that i learned in my holidays is that, always try to see the better side of people. No ones perfect, cause simply put it we re Human, damn right, we sin duh. I ve been hurt b4 not in a physical sense, but eh yeah. Someone i liked made me sound like a parasite, the adjective clinging* was used. I was seriously so freaking pissed off that night, vulgarities came spewing out like free, u know when u really hate a person, all their imperfections are suddenly so mother freaking clear. Its so easy to say shes a total bitch or whatever, but then when i got home it suddenly dawned onto me. You know what, that was really immature of me. She is a nice person and she simply deserves better, so i really should not have bitched abt her like a raving dog.
I guess thats the norm isnt it? When things just dont come to a happy ending or go ur way even small things like, "his hair wahh, really freaking ugly lar", or "the way she talks damn turn off lar". We see all these small insignificant details that really make us have a superficial judgement abt them. All because of us not having our way. Isnt that selfish, or just that horrid moment where we feel nuthin but hatred and disgust? God didnt make us perfect, he gave us the good along with the bad, so see the good in people pls. Dont live in that moment of anger and hatred, its just wrong, i know i did, and yeah i do regret it. Definetely bitching is a thing which no one can avoid, but remembering the good in people, it makes it a whole lot easier to control ones tongue.
So instead of going like 'that cb person makes my life so miserable just by talking to me'
Why not go like " hey actually he/she is quite nice, that time she/he helped me with this thing, i dont really have a strong and valid reason for hating he/she, so why not i just go talk it out?"
And in whatever situation, always remember to be mature and nvr compromise ur dignity for anything. Thats lesson two that i ve learned. Even though shit happens, i liked u u didnt really like me things got awkard i cant bear to look u in the face when i talk to you. U know just suck it up and got talk it out ith the person. "Hey u know that yeah i did like u once, and eh things happened and our friendship got compromised, i mean shit we cant even look each other in the eye anymore and talk, so why not we just put everything aside and start anew as friends?" Dont leave things hanging in the past as well, forgetting may be a solution but trust me it would come back to haunt you one day Cfm. Its easy to say I dont wanna talk to you anymore and F out of my life, but it takes real guts to patch up that friendship, and continue to be friends. Its really a lot of courage needed, but its not impossible.
So yeah i hope i made some sense tonight with my two points. Its just some stuff that i picked up in the holidays, to always see the good in people and be damn mature in all situations. Not saying its easy though, it takes courage lar honestly. But the results would be fantastic. Im taking this chance in Christmas to fight my demons, hanging threads of problems that were left in the past. Im not gonna let them stay there for the rest of my life.
Lets do this.
